Matthew Hussey

"I had Ray-Ban bands on to film. I was wearing these glasses and they were recording and all you can hear on the recording is me weeping."

"I do Brazilian jiu-jitsu in my spare time when I don't have a 6-week old baby."

"My first foray into the world of AI in a serious way outside of just playing with ChatGPT myself was the release of Matthew AI."

"None of this means that someone who's struggling in an ongoing way shouldn't seek therapy or coaching."

"None of this means that someone who's struggling in an ongoing way shouldn't seek therapy or coaching."

"Drop the pressure. Stop thinking about whether this person is the one and just focus on what you feel in the moment. Lead with curiosity."

"Ask yourself, can I learn what is interesting about this person? What can I enjoy about this conversation?"

"At the very least get on FaceTime to see if you feel something through FaceTime in the absence of an in-person meeting."

"Using the Apple Notes app as your therapist... I wouldn't say therapist because you're your own therapist there. You're writing down thoughts that you want to record that are important that you need to come back to. I think that's very very important."

"There's actually you're modeling a very good model from the book Crucial Conversations which is the STATE model where it talks about certain difficult conversations."

"Now that I'm having a child I'm looking at like Finding Nemo and going like oh that movie's now got a whole new meaning to me."

"I remember watching Guardians of the Galaxy, the first one, and seeing Chris Pratt playing Star-Lord, and it became like this emotional button for me for why being single was awesome."

"It's Joe Hudson's definition. Vulnerability is speaking your truth even when it's scary."

"Did you see that clip of Shohei Ohtani when the pitcher just launches it at him and he stands his teammates down? The commentators said 'This is why this guy is going to be a legend. He transcends the sport.'"

"In David Whyte's book, Consolations, he talks about the concept of running away in life. He says, 'Wanting to run is necessary, but it can also be extremely dangerous and unwise, especially when running exiles us from the very circumstances that we're about to mature and cultivate our character.'"

"In a world where we're glued to our phones or our wireless AirPods, it is so easy to avoid being in the room."

"If you enjoy watching educational YouTube content, go see your favorite creator live on tour."

"I used to play World of Warcraft. I treated dating apps the same way I treated World of Warcraft. I treated it like it was a video game where I got to have fun conversations with other players."

"As Anna I think puts it or it's either Anna or Elsa in Frozen 2, you know, you do the next right thing. What's the next right thing that you could do?"

"Oliver Burkeman in his book Meditation for Mortals talks about realizing that your dreams have not come true in the way that you thought and finding yourself in the mess in the rubble of your life."

"That led to a long-distance relationship via Skype for six months."

"I once had a long relationship with someone who I met on Chat Roulette."

"The food industry has a term called the bliss point for the optimal level of salty and sweet that makes you keep wanting more of something, right? Think Nutella, think kettle corn."

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"I've also written two New York Times bestsellers on this subject."

"I've been talking for a long time about a concept I call unique pairings, which is that what makes someone really attractive is when you see two different qualities in the same person that you don't normally find in the same person."

"It has been trained on 18 years of my data, my courses, everything I've ever said. And you can access it for free at askmh.com. Matthew AI remembers your conversations so you can keep going back for more contextual advice."

"I put so much work into this. It is so full of information that I promise you, you're going to find immensely helpful."

"I have a free training program that is designed for exactly that challenge. It is called Casual to Committed and thousands of people have now been through this."

"In a recent live event I did, I mentioned something I call the FLAME method and how we should be applying it to 2026."

"If you want to know the best way to make that happen for you with practical steps that you can implement today, you have to check out this free training I just did."

"You can get that answer from Matthew AI... Matthew AI will give you nuance because it is trained on 18 years of my programs, my data, and my videos. And you can get access to Matthew AI and even try it for free at askmh.com."

"I am also the creator of Matthew AI, the world's AI authority on dating and relationship advice."

"In just one week, I am holding a special free event I am calling the year of love. After 18 plus years of coaching hundreds of thousands of people around the world through the ups and downs of modern dating, I have seen what works and I have seen what burns people out."

"I list in a chapter called Never Satisfied in the book, I list some of the reasons why we keep gravitating towards people who are bad for us."

"I have an intimate group of a coaching group as you know called Club 320."

"One of the things that people have been enjoying about Matthew AI the most is during the most intense heartbreaks of their life, that Matthew AI is invaluable. Many people use the term lifesaving."

"We have created a 14-day free trial specifically for our Love Life podcast listeners that you can get at lovelifeclub.com. I coach you every single month live. Steven coaches you every single month live."

"So when I say in this book 'Find Your Person', I'm not talking about the person who wants completely different things from you."

"I have a private group, a very small group of people that I coach every year. It's my most immersive intimate coaching experience that I hold. It's called Club 320."

"We're not optimizing for first dates, we're optimizing for second dates. The idea is to give you less matches because we're optimizing for second dates and people that you're actually going to go further with."

"I have been loving Cure, which is a plant-based electrolyte drink mix that is clean and natural with no added sugar."

"I finally got myself some bamboo pajamas from Cozy Earth. They are buttery soft, lightweight, super breathable, and somehow they make me feel kind of pulled together and relax at the same time."

"One of them is Cozy Earth's bamboo pajama set, and the other one is their bubble cuddle blanket that lives on our sofa year round. Both of them are unbelievably soft and cozy."

"One of them is Cozy Earth's bamboo pajama set, and the other one is their bubble cuddle blanket that lives on our sofa year round. Both of them are unbelievably soft and cozy."

"I'm thinking about the bamboo pajama set and the bubble cuddle blanket from Cozy Earth. Both of them are incredibly soft, cozy. I've used Cozy Earth products and I love them and have them in my home."

"I want you to go over to askmh.com and try MatthewAI. It's trained on 18 years of my courses, my videos, my coaching, and it is going to give you tailored advice for your situation that goes beyond the general advice in this video."

"I created Matthew AI, the world's leading AI authority on dating and relationships."

"If you are looking for love in 2026 and you have not yet signed up for the year of love event that I'm doing, it is coming up fast this month."

"I am hosting a worldwide free event called the year of love this month. For anybody out there whose biggest intention in 2026 is to find love, if that's you, you have to be there."

"This is my digital mind that you can text or call and hear my voice speaking back to you 24 hours a day. You can literally wake up in the middle of the night feeling confused, anxious, heartbroken, lonely, wanting to work on your confidence and call me and have a conversation with me as your coach."

"I am thrilled to invite you to something truly transformative. It is a 90-minute masterclass called Dating with Results. In this training, I'm going to be sharing the specific tools and strategies that have helped thousands of people find love without being overwhelmed by the process."

"You have to go and take this free masterclass, Casual to Committed, that I have created for you."

"Right now, you can try Matthew AI, your personal dating coach, in your pocket for just $7 for your first month."

"This is my digital mind that you can text or call and hear my voice speaking back to you 24 hours a day. So, you can literally wake up in the middle of the night feeling confused, anxious, heartbroken, lonely, wanting to work on your confidence and call me and have a conversation with me as your coach answering your questions."

"I have a free training called 'Casual to Committed' that you can watch at getcommitment.com which is a perfect free training video for you."

"My digital mind that you can call or text anytime you want. You can get two weeks for free of it. It's like having me in your pocket. You can text or call me asking me for advice anytime you need."

"It is one of the most powerful tools I've ever created for people. Whether you're trying to decode someone's behavior, win back attraction, understand what to text or how to have a certain conversation, or you're trying to heal from something painful like heartbreak, Matthew AI can be there for you 24/7."

"Matthew AI is designed to help you know what to say and what to do in all of these situations. The right advice in the right moment can mean the difference between losing someone, getting stuck in a really toxic situation for too long and wasting your time, or finally creating the healthy, loving, committed relationship you have always wanted with someone."

"Matthew AI can help you with all of that. And right now, we have a Black Friday deal on Matthew AI where you can try it for two whole weeks for free on me unlimited."