A High Value Way of Dealing with Ghosting

The gist

1. A follow-up message after early ghosting is worth sending, since the connection was never really established in the first place.
2. Hussey says ghosters in long-term relationships show a core character trait: they disappear when things get hard rather than communicate.
3. Hussey says you can love someone selfishly, meaning you loved how they made you feel, not them, which explains leaving without a word.
4. Grief from ghosting eases when you see you are mourning an imagined future and person, not who they actually were.