How To Make Friends As An Adult
Matthew Hussey outlines four skills for making friends as an adult: closing conversations with a plan to reconnect, following up quickly, showing vulnerability, and handling rejection.
The gist
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After a good conversation, suggest staying in touch on the spot, since most friendships never form because neither person takes that step.
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Text within days to say it was good seeing them or propose a specific activity, because most people never follow up at all.
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Share something real when someone asks how you are doing, since surface-level answers prevent the kind of connection that makes friendships last.
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Hussey says strong friendships raise survival odds by 50% and give people the confidence to perform better across all areas of life.
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