4 Key Steps to Know If They’re Right for You

The gist

1. Hussey's four levels are admiration, mutual attraction, commitment, and compatibility, with compatibility being the most important and often overlooked.
2. Strong chemistry can actually reflect anxiety and an unpredictable partner rather than real connection, Hussey says.
3. Commitment without compatibility can cost you your health, finances, career, and emotional well-being, Hussey warns.
4. Attraction can grow over time with a compatible person, so Hussey reframes this as consciously choosing someone rather than settling for less.