Do Men Ever Change? (Tips From A Guy Who Did...)

The gist

1. Change needs a strong enough reason: both the appeal of a good future with you and awareness that old patterns have not worked.
2. Calling out poor behavior like inconsistent texting signals you won't accept it, which can push someone to step up.
3. Walking away only works as a genuine standard, not a tactic, and requires the other person to already have aligned values.
4. Hussey says his wife tested whether he could become a great partner rather than trying to force him to change.