The Strait of Hormuz is Why You're Still Single

Mark Manson · · 24 min

Mark Manson uses the Iran-Strait of Hormuz situation as a metaphor to explain how leverage and dependency shape dating and relationships.

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The gist

  1. Depending on one person for emotional validation gives them leverage over you, just as relying on a single energy source creates geopolitical vulnerability.
  2. Manson says you cannot negotiate with irrational partners optimizing for drama or spite; the only move is to leave, not engage.

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