James Sexton, Matt McCusker & Rick Glassman - Mostly Wise #4
Divorce attorney James Sexton joins Chris Williamson, Rick Glassman, and Matt McCusker to discuss what makes relationships work or fail, from prenups to courtroom strategy.
The gist
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Small gestures done without being asked, like restocking a partner's favorite granola, are early signs of relationship health when present and trouble when they stop.
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Sexton says prenup conversations should start on the third date, covering what each person needs and what happens if things end.
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Female judges often hold women to harsher standards in divorce court, so knowing your judge's profile matters more than generic strategy.
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State your needs directly rather than testing whether a partner notices them, which removes resentment and filters for real compatibility early.
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