a video to watch if you're ambitious and in your 20s or 30s

The gist

1. Before committing to a goal, ask whether you designed it, actually want the prize, and can accept the full cost.
2. Hormozi says people who are good in one area, like fitness, often refuse to be beginners elsewhere, costing them years.
3. Dominant games make every other metric follow; Hormozi uses Facebook beating MySpace by focusing on monthly active users as an example.
4. Define your own winning conditions based on what you are willing to sacrifice, so external approval becomes optional rather than the goal.