The Flirting Secret That Makes You Irresistible

The gist

1. Calm is the starting point for all good communication; without a regulated nervous system, any borrowed line or technique sounds fake.
2. Pairing contradictory qualities, like playfulness with sincerity or confidence with vulnerability, makes you memorable because most people default to just one mode.
3. Hussey says moving too fast is the most common mistake on first dates, and the same rush kills momentum in business conversations too.
4. Sitting with silence and pausing before responding signals self-assurance and keeps the other person more engaged than filling every gap.