It’s Officially 2026..
Matthew Hussey opens 2026 with a live broadcast about dating burnout, arguing that building a joyful life first is a better path to love than obsessing over finding it.
The gist
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Shift your mindset from hoping someone sticks around to calmly seeing if they meet the tests a lifetime partner needs to meet.
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Obsessing over finding love narrows your focus and pushes people away, so design a fulfilling life that attracts love as a side effect.
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In long-term relationships, both partners need to stay aware of what makes the other special and keep making effort to remain attractive.
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When life feels overwhelming, Hussey says to stop resisting your situation and just focus on the next right thing you can do.
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