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36 Questions
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Last discussed Jun 22, 2026
A research-based set of 36 progressively intimate questions, also known as the 'Fast Friends Procedure,' designed to accelerate closeness and interpersonal connection between two people.
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Science of Attraction, Compatibility & Romance | Dr. Paul Eastwick
Paul Eastwick · Jun 22, 2026
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Used for: Used on an evening-length date to facilitate deep reciprocal self-disclosure and build genuine connection
Praised: Elicits real depth and reciprocal self-disclosure; creates a sense of having ...
vs: Contrasted with typical speed-dating small talk (discussing majors, hometowns...
"I really like the 36 questions test. Sometimes it's called the fast friends procedure, but these are questions like, what's one thing that you've never told somebody that you've always wanted to tell them and what's stopping you? After hanging out..."
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